Hey all! I'm am 18m and I've recently but wanting to get more and more into the dating field. I tend to be as friendly as possible, I love talking to people and making people laugh at any chance I get. I think this has worked out for me and I've ended up beening asked out a good few times, and by people I think are nice and attractive to who I seem to click with but I always end up rejecting them in some way, shape or form

However I have this thing I do that seems to be setting me back. I've never actually asked a girl out (not due to nerves, just not generally interested in dating) I feel like the reason I'm not interested is because whenever I meet someone that I think I might be romantically comparable with, my mind almost goes super sonic, imagineing up every single possible scenario of me with that person, I basically play out our relationship in my head and whenever I can sense a conflict might arise I basically immediately erase that person as someone I'd be wanting to date. Turns out I do that often as now I can only think of maybe 1-2 people who I can think of that have really made it past my mind-explosion

I was curious, is this common? Does it seem like my standards are too high? In a partner? Does it seem like I'm putting limiters on myself so I don't have to suffer rejection? I'd love to here your thoughts! Thanks for reading 😁