I (22f) have been talking to someone (27m) for almost 3 months but we haven’t met yet. We text each other everyday and we’ve only had one phone call.. but the real problem is he keeps asking me out on dates, bailing, we stop talking, and then start talking again and he’ll tell me he bails because of his anxiety and then the cycle repeats. I know I haven’t met him yet but I do really like talking to him and want to see if we can actually have something if we do ever meet. I’d like to note I do know he is a real person (not a catfish) because I’ve did a background check, looked into his social medias, and I’ve even posted him in the “are we dating the same guy” groups on Facebook and no one’s said anything bad about him. I just don’t know what to do. I feel dumb but I also really believe the guy lol.