So I would like a guys chestava opinion on the subject matter. 1 (38F) have been dating a guy (42M) for about 11 months now, and things Justin different. I do understand that the honeymoon phase doesn't always ask for ever, but I don't understand how he can go for making me feel like I am really truly an amazing girlfriend, and he has every thing he needs, making me feel like I am invisible. During our time together, things haven't always completely felt right to me. And what I mean by this is, we met on a dating site here and I have prior to us actually meeting. We would always talk on the dating site, but will never meet up. There is always a reason why he can never meet up. During that time, I was in an open relationship, and he was very well aware as I and open and honest about everything. Eventually we start talking to each other and we went our separate ways. Fast forward a year and a half later to where we met on the same site and talked on and off for a couple weeks. During that time I was currently separated from my husband and honestly just needed laid. So one night, we were talking and he said something about meeting up, so I called his bluff and said let's do it that night. He didn't really think I would do it, so he called my bluff. We ended up meeting and hooking up and I left it at that. He was the one that kept in touch first, and would always ask me to come over. So a one night stand/booty call turn into an 11 month relationship. After a month of being together, I basically started staying with him every day and every night, so now we left together. During the first few couple months, he told me he wasn't talking to anybody else, but his son would constantly go off, and it still does to this day, and he would always say it was a notification for an app. That he was no longer on any dating sites, so there is no way he could be talking to anybody. Something in my gut told me that he wasn't being truthful, so I created a profile on the site that I knew he was on, and low and behold there he was. He always told me that it wasn't him, and that he had deleted his profile, so there was no way with him. And to this day he says he's not on any dating sites, but I knew of at least two sites that he was on, but I never told him that I knew. If I were to ever bring some thing like that up, it will just cause a huge fight. Anytime he is on his phone, he always turns it away, and angles his body towards me to hide his phone. Now, when I bring that up to him, he says it's just a natural reaction, and that he has nothing to hide, but still will not turn to me, and let me see the screen until he clears his notifications. I know he talks to people and where he talks to them that, I honestly do not care, I just want him to be truthful and admit it, but he will not. He will always deny it. on numerous occasions, he will get a notification because it shows up in his notification center, but he won't look at it until he either leaves the room or myself. Also, if he does get a notification, he sometimes will walk out of the living room and be gone for 2030 minutes at a time. He always states that he was cleaning something up or trying to find some thing, but I do not believe it as I am one of the most observant people he may know. I just don't know what to think or believe anymore. What is your opinions about all this?