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Thoughts on this girl I dated for a while liking and watching all my posts?
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Hi everyone, tldr;

Back in October, I got out of a nasty divorce and met a girl who's 27, I'm 31. We met online and hit it off almost instantly, very strong connection. We dated for several months until February. Back in February she seemed to get a little distant, I saw her right before Valentine's day and she told me after several days of not hearing from her, after hearing from her many times daily all day long for months that "something wasn't right and that she couldnt figure out why she felt the way that she did but she wishes she could cause she wanted this to work." I responded by telling her "Nothing to apologize for, I want to be with someone who wants to be with me as much as I want to be with them. Feel free to give me a call if you ever change your mind." She responded to this "I definitely will." This is the last I heard from her directly.

Since then, it seems 9/10 of the time I post on Instagram, she looks at every single story, she looks almost constantly at all my Facebook stories, and out of the 5 posts I've made in the past 3 months, she's liked half of them. I made a post at a baseball game on Sunday, and she liked it, surprisingly.

I know likes mean nothing, but when you pair it with the fact she looks at every single story I post, does it mean something? I recently got a new job, started working out, moving into a brand new apartment soon, got a HUGE $40,000 raise (Which she knows about) and have lots of other great things going on. It almost feels like she could be waiting until I move out of my parents in July into my own place she could reach out.

Maybe she'll say nothing at all, and until she reaches out, since she basicallly ended what I thought was a perfect thing that was about to be exclusive, I Know not to reach to her. I have beeen COMPLETELY non contact for 3 months now, not even looking at a single story she posts, while she looks at all of mine.

I know it means NOTHING until she reaches out to me directly, but does it sound like something is cooking? Thanks for the help in advance, this one really stung and I still miss her.

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