Hello everyone. I really need some encouragement right now. I don't know how many people have dealt with something like this, but its given me a lot of questions. The situation is this: I live with High Functioning Autism/ASD (Asperger's), however in the past year I've started dealing with a chronic nerve condition which has led to urine incontince, requiring the need to wear adult diapers. For me, knowing that wearing diapers helps with the issue, I'm ok with it. However, my biggest fear is if I begin a relationship and I tell them, I worry that they will immediately cause a deal breaker, me or ghost me after finding out. I'm scared I will be misunderstood and mistreated for something I cannot control. If I was to start dating someone, I'm afraid that once a relationship gets deeper they will run away if I tell them. What do I do?