So me(23m) has been single for 5 months due to my ex wanting to break things off after 4 years, I was recently getting to know a girl also and we spoke for 2 month and got really close until I found out she was double texting me and another guy and that got broken off pretty quick.

After all of that I'm not bitter nor do I care about it, that shit happened in the past and it is what it is but rn I just feel like I have no motivation for a relationship if that makes sense like I'm not actively pursuing a relationship like I was before/after my ex and it feels almost alien like.

Don't get me wrong I do want a relationship and to settle down but I can't be bothered anymore, I've dove deeper into my hobbies and working on myself aswell as work and I have plenty of time to be looking for a relationship but there's just no motivation to do so.