Been chatting online with a couple girls here and there because let's face it we all get a bit lonely sometimes and it's nice to have someone.

I set up a date with both and have been on a date with one.

First off the girl I went on a date with seemed pretty cool at first, but little red flags popped up when she would try and toss in subtle insults like they were playful jokes. Then after our date, (which all things considered I thought went well) she flaked on me when were in the middle of a conversation after I arrived home. After we both agreed to play games online for a bit, I got distracted for 10 minutes because my dog was begging to be let out and I made a snack before I was about to hop on the game. She took that as "me leaving her on read" and got mad and went to bed after we just got done having a conversation about how we both tend to go to bed at like 2am as night owls (it was barely midnight, and to reiterate we JUST agreed to game). She didn't say goodnight or anything. Just poof with no explanation. I was left confused and worried that I somehow did something wrong. The next day I brought it up with her and she said it was MY fault and that I was being a victim for no reason. She made no attempt towards empathy or respect towards my time.

This next girl I have a date planned Monday, but she low-key just shat in my dms with her last passive aggressive message. We were hitting it off pretty well and getting to know one another when she suddenly asked me to go see her at her work at 10:30 pm today. I told her that's probably not an option because I have some responsibilities at home (didn't say this, but frankly I don't want to go out to meet a girl for the first time at 10:30pm on such short notice either. I HAVE a life and normally that late I want to play video games with my friends or just relax). She said it "it would be like 10:30, but okay". And I know you guys don't have the whole context of the convo, but it was definitely passive aggressive. I just don't understand why she's mad at me when I tell her respectfully that I would rather meet her at our scheduled date that I have set time aside to meet and spend time with her. To me this passive aggressive behavior this early is a huge red flag and now I'm wondering if I should even follow through with the date or cancel because she is being passive aggressive towards me when I KNOW I haven't done anything to justify it.