I've always had trouble with trying to get dates with women. I'm not creepy or anything. Instead I'm the opposite. I'm working a well paying job, I have bigger plans for myself to share my art with the world to inspire the next generation, I have an awesome personality, growth oriented, loyal and on top of that I'm very spiritual. I've even been known to use reiki to literally heal physical pain from other, but this isn't enough to get women. In fact they dont even take to meet up with me on the first day (after agreeing to it). As far as they know I'm a good artist/2d animator with a decent pizza delivery job. I get that women are looking for the top 10% of guys to date, but is it really that bad to where they won't even consider dating guys that don't appear to be within this percentage?

I'm hurt 😞 and the constantly rejection with no balance has damaged my sacral chakra which I'm actively try to heal by going to the gym and sitting in the hot tub after workouts.

Will there ever be a turning point for me and other guys or will we just have to wait until we're in our 30s to see? Please help.