I don’t walk up to folks at the bar. And tend to get shot down when I ask people to dance. Anyways I’m on the tinder and well it’s not happening.

Me I’m a pretty outgoing guy- I like the bar scene, camping, golf range, pool, and I even like to go to the gun range. I got a motorcycle and I’ve traveled. I think I’m pretty cool- thing is I don’t have any photos of these adventures of mine. I tend to be the photo taker of friends.

Other thing is regarding me - I’m just a plain looking guy, jeans and T kinda guy always got a hat on - during the week I’m a banker I got my polo and dress shoes on. Hair is short currently but I’ve dyed it and shaved it all the jazz. Oh I’m not over weight, got a lil tummy but I’m a 34 on the hips. 5’7

So to tinder now(my main point) it’s just photos of me in clothes I like with my many hair cuts - I tend not to put anything to wild or about me in the bio cuz I get more matches with an empty one.

I’m upset due to my matches - 1. It’s the “I respond on IG” ladies that just market OF. 2. It’s a lovely person I find attractive and interesting - Can never get more than 2 messages out of them whether I come in chill with a “hello:)” or hard with the thirst comment or a pick up line - or even a joke 3. Is the ladies I attract but I’m not attracted too - not really upset about that.

I’m just frustrated can’t hold a conversation and my matches are either people marketing which I respect - or ladies I’m not attracted to (I swipe right on everyone because then I get no matches lol)

Anyways what do you guys do? I’m in this mental state where I just need a successful date so I can ride that energy into the next match you know? Also not it school but most women my age are students or graduates.