I’m 29M and she’s 27F

exclusive for just about a year.

I know you shouldn’t go looking for trouble but temptation got the better of me and I snooped her phone.

She met a random guy at a bar like 2-3 weeks ago. She gave him her number and they chatted a bit the next two days. He asked her to hang out and she replied “ok 🥰 “

Obviously I got pissed at her and confronted her. She started crying and made the excuse “we never met up though, we didn’t do anything”

Even if they didn’t physically meet up the intent was there though. I would’ve never known if I didn’t snoop so she’s also keeping secrets from me.

It sucks, I really liked her and I feel like I wasted my time. She’s crying and asking to forgive her, and I’d be lying if I said I didn’t want to. I still have feelings for her obviously.

But I can’t get over it.

What would y’all do?

UPDATE:

I told her I couldn’t trust her anymore and we broke up.

I’m surprised by the comments however: The majority of you said to end it, and a large portion of you said it was wrong of me to snoop as well which I understand. But I’m really shocked by the few who said her cheating was my fault? I absolutely disagree.