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Dating a shy guy. How to tell if he's [M31] keen and what he wants?
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We've been on 3 dates in two weeks. Initially, he was nervous (but was hiding it), then slowly he's not nervous anymore. He's shy (I think especially when it comes to dating) and introverted.

At the end of the 2nd date, he asked "do you want me to kiss you?" which was a quite funny way to ask... anyways we kissed. He said I like you and am interested. I was like ok I like you too. He told me that he feels that I'm easy to talk to. That makes him feel comfortable.

On 3rd date I noticed that he is actually fine to talk to strangers - then I realized that he was just shy in dating. It went well, we spent the whole afternoon together.

I haven't asked him what he wants from dating currently. But here are the things I noticed and facts I have:

- He texts me "good morning" texts almost every day, a few days I texted him first because I thought I'd show a bit of initiative...

- He sends me photos of what he does during the day...

- We'd text on and off from morning to sleep.

- When we see kids doing stuff, he'd always comment "aww that's so cute" etc...

- I asked him "seems like I'm always one asking questions. Don't you have things wanting to ask?" He's like not that I don't want to know you, but I think I know everything I need to know. Then he asked about how and when did my last relationship end...

- He's an experienced runner and goes to running events. I just started to run with other events. He's like let me know anytime if you want to join me for running.

- He never had a long-term relationship in the past. He said he didn't want a relationship in his 20s because of afraid of losing himself and his own hobby. (I should have asked what he wants now but somehow didn't)

- His dating app profile says "wants long-term relationship".

- He hasn't made a "move" on me... guys I dated in the past are all very smooth and want to get down to the "Netflix and chill" part fairly quickly. So I'm a bit lost here...

I'm very bad at reading people when it comes to romantic relationships. There were guys that I thought were genuinely interested in me but turned out only want sex. Vice versa....

Thoughts??

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