My guy is an ass man. I unfortunately was not as blessed in that area as I'd like to be and even though I'm working out and trying to build a booty, I just don't have the big butt genes. I'll never have a big bubble butt. Mines more like two little jiggly handfuls. And of course, when losing weight, the first things to go are your boobs & ass 🙄 i dont hate my ass. I just wish it was a little bigger (always have). He's obviously never complained but has said several times he's"an ass man". It makes me feel like my ass isn't as big as he'd like. However, I know that's my own insecurity (thanks to my ex who would remind me of all the attributes i DIDN'T have) and has nothing to do with him. he loves slapping my ass and he makes me feel wanted and attractive, but I feel like its a disappointment sometimes because i have like barely anything for him to grip onto.

we decided to explore some backdoor play, and I'm currently anal training so I want the experience to be good for him, but i feel like half of it is the view and idk i don't have much of one.

Does your partner not having your preferred attributes eventually make you wish they did? Like "if they had X, this would be so much better" or something? Or am I just thinking way too much into this?

side note: i am aware this is purely based on my own insecurities and It's just the fact that hes said it a few times. Took me back to my ex doing that shit so now i can't help but wonder. I can't tell if it's because hes just excited about the anal or if he's trying to tell me something lol