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Matched with someone I used to date, why?
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So a little over a year ago I (33M) was seeing someone for a few months. We were getting along fairly well until we got into some more serious conversations about world views and values and it quickly became apparent in my opinion that we weren't compatible. I broke it off and she was hurt.

We didn't talk for quite a long time, until a couple months ago when out of the blue I got a text from her. She basically said she wanted to let me know she took a job quite literally next to my house. I congratulated her and being friendly asked if she wanted to meet for coffee some time, to which she replied "Thanks but I'll pass".

Today, she matched with me on Bumble again, which is where we initially met last time but hasn't messaged me. I don't really get it. Is she conflicted? Is she just trying to show herself off to make me jealous?

Thanks.

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