When I broke up with my child’s father. I was so upset. Heartbroken. I blamed him for many things. One day I realized I needed to work on myself. I started asking questions. Particularly why was I letting them. Why was I choosing those kind of men. FAMILY. That’s where my need for validation started. Neglectful mom. But not neglectful to the naked eye. On the outside my suburban life seemed great. I thought there was something wrong with me. But it was the people around me. They filled me with thoughts of being less than and I unknowingly AGREED to it. Especially when I continued to need their validation and give them my energy. Our dating issues stem from something bigger. The energy that we picked up along the way. I’m learning how to clear this energy out and look forward to sharing more with everyone