I have now been stood up or scammed now 10 times since coming back to dating inpreticular online dating is just where are all the good women who actually want to love a man want to treat him good ect I get that I am not very attractive because I got alot of problems mental health issues like depression and anxiety and I don't drive or own my own place a 23 years old but I treat them good or try to I try to be nice but fair and not get to sexual but mind you I have a very high sex drive so that is super hard for me to do I just want to find a respectful woman one that is frisky likes to fool around alot but at the same time just want to chill on the couch with me and enjoy quality time together hell I don't care really as long as it is meaningful and fun and genuine but it never is. is it me am I the problem or is it them I don't know any more I just know I want to be able to love a woman and have sex again its been 6 years my last 2 girlfriends used me for sex and physically hit me every time I said no to them why do the good heart people aways get hurt make me want to give up for good I am to scared to go to bars and other public places to meet lady's what do I do any one have advice or wisdom or want to prove me wrong I am so lonely here it makes me so miserable.