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Does a rejected kiss always mean rejection of you?
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I was initially unsure if this girl was interested in me just as friends or if she is also interested romantically. I met her through a mutual friend, once.

I asked her to go to the movies with me. It could be a 'hang out' or a date, I didn't know what she thought.

I was afraid to make a move. Half way through the movie, she put her head on my shoulder. After I while, I elbow locked her arms then slowly reached to touch her palms. She held my hand and interlocked her fingers (but not tightlty, softly). After a few mins, she let go.

After a while, she again put her head on my shoulder, snuggling closer to my neck and caressing my neck softly with her head. I rested my head on her head. We stayed like this for quite some time.

After the movie, I tried to kiss her on the street. She said this is not the right moment. I said, ok so, another, better moment, then! And I laughed it off.

Later, I tried to kiss her again at the public transport station. She said, again, it's not the right moment, there is nothing romantic about a public transport station. Then she fixed my shirt, which was a bit messed up on the side.

Does her rejection of the kiss a rejection of me? Is she romantically interested or just wants to be friends?

I asked her if she wants to meet again. She said she is busy till next Monday. I asked if she want to meet on Tuesday night. She said, if she doesn't have work or other stuff, then yes.

If she agrees to meet me again, it means it just wasn't the right time but she is not opposed to the idea of kissing. But I won't find out until a few days later. That's why, I'm curious and I'm asking here.

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