I started seeing this girl off of Bumble about a couple weeks ago. We hung out a few times and things seem to be going well. We get along well and there’s chemistry for sure. When we first started talking, we brought up previous relationships. She dated this guy for 4 years and they broke up. She was drunk when she brought him up and said she would gladly go back to him, which was the first red flag. This was before we had ever met in person. I was willing to say okay, let’s move past that because we all have baggage and she hasn’t seriously dated anyone since they broke up about 6 months ago.

We were supposed to hang out today but she said she wasn’t feeling up to it emotionally so we rescheduled for tomorrow. She says shes doing something tonight so probably wont be texting me much. She brings it up a few times so I eventually ask (if felt like she was trying to get me to ask) so she says shes going to hang out with him.

How do I proceed from this? Do I continue to try to make things work or just cut things off now before they proceed any further? I hate the idea of giving an ultimatum, and I am not normally a jealous person, but this just rubs me the wrong way.