I’ve (27F) been dating my bf (28M) for about a year now. We have very uncoordinated schedules so I have to work around his schedule to make time to see him since my job is a little more flexible with scheduling. His best friend (28F) suggested to go on vacation with my bf and without a second thought my bf said he’s down. I’m all for guys and girls can be friends, my best friend is a guy. The issue is I still haven’t met this best friend of his because we are busy adults that work, so a meeting just never happened. While I was trying to make plans to see him and working around his schedule, he told me last minute that he will be going away on vacation with his best friend. I feel a bit hurt because i would plan my schedule in a way where I’ll have a long weekend so we can go on a mini road trip or something cause we never went anywhere outside our city together before. I want to go on vacation with him too but he doesn’t seem like he wants to. I’m already starting the year a bit on edge because I missed out on Christmas and New Years with him cause of covid and work. So yes, I am upset, he chose to go on vacation with his best friend who I still haven’t met over me, especially right after my birthday. Am I overreacting? There’s a lot more to this that is upsetting me but this is the main thing.

Edit: thank you all for your input, the relationship has ended. Thank you for the nice comments, and the harsh ones.