I’ve always been the sort of guy that never likes to hug, kiss, show physical affection. In my culture, we hug and kiss one another as a sign of respect and greeting. I grew up being uncomfortable by this and have never expressed my love through touch.

However, when I’m with my girlfriend post-sex, or even just lounging around, I can’t stop cuddling with her, giving her kisses, playing with her hair-all that cheesy stuff. She definitely likes it, and sometimes I feel a little embarrassed but we both enjoy it.

What’s funny is that she tells me that I’m one of the more serious and stoic people she’s dated, yet also one of the most physically affectionate. Has anyone experienced this before? I’m genuinely interested in how being intimate can bring out a new side of you, despite your hardwired traits.