I'm a 23m, and for most of my life I've been ill in some way or another. The last 2 years or so though things have turned around and I'm actually managing my mental and physical health well and able to be somewhat stable. My last relationship was very controlling and I guess as a result I don't really know how to meet people. I have my hobbies but they aren't really the kinda place to meet ladies but to be fair its been ages since I've been around it. I do have anxiety about a lot of dumb shit but I honestly just wanna connect with someone and experience new things since I can finally live. I don't think I'm necessarily bad looking, and I've been told recently that I'm a good person by coworkers (ngl that made me feel great). I know I have my failings and I don't have much other than my time and company to offer, but I don't know why I can't get anyone's attention. Thanks in advance and sorry if its a sob story. I honestly haven't tried to "pick up" a lady since highschool, and I'm not down with the fuckboi approach, that stuff drives me mad. I just wanna enjoy someone's company.