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What's the deal with needing to be "super interesting" to get a relationship?
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I'm pretty sure the majority of people just wake up, go to work, come home, watch shows, and go to bed. When I say that this is more or less what I do people say I need to be doing more "interesting" things like what is even interesting? Also consider that most people will end up having children at some point which would take away most of the time from those hobbies anyway. This means I'd be picking up a bunch of interests and hobbies for the sole purpose of meeting women and then have to abandon these when I have children and need to spend that time on them.

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My SO is super introverted and doesn’t like going anywhere either. Whereas I am more of an ambivert. I respect and accept him and his needs, and he tries to do the same for me. I knew what I was getting myself into. Plus, anything I want to do that’s he’s not interested in I can always do with a friend. It’ll be ten years together in May. We are very happy together. So, you just need to find someone who likes you for you and will make it work!

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It sure did take a long time. I was looking for several years. But it paid off and I would do it all over again.

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