So, I'm 19(m) haven't been in a real relationship. And I'm trying to get into the dating scene. Simple enough yes, however I have like zero experience at all, in all things physical. I've gone on plenty of dates and what not, most of which went really well. I think I'm just too quick to judge cuz I haven't had any follow up dates mostly my fault. These dates have also only been with men cuz I feel like they're "less" judgemental. Im interested in women as well but have stayed away because I don't have the giant package I'm "supposed" to have for being black.(also a reason for my lack of physical experience) And my female friends are always ranting and complaining about size, so I just avoided trying to date women all together. This is a self confidence issue but idk what to do about it. I feel like I'm a very nice, interesting person who's easy enough get along with. It just sucks cuz like I don't want that to be the only reason I don't date anyone and proceed further. Does size really matter all that much? Is lack of experience a turn off? Is being bisexual an issue? Am I just overthinking things? Like these are the questions I need help/guidance with answering/navigating.