Title says it all, really, but it just makes no sense to me. I've gone on some dates with a few different girls in the last month and the pattern seems all too consistent. I'll get to know a girl I find attractive and interesting, I propose a date and they enthusiastically accept, but when I go to setting the actual plans, they go cold and suddenly lose interest. Even worse yet is when we'll actually go on that first date and in the end they say how much they'd absolutely love to go out again, but then all that passion mysteriously vanishes when I go to make a second date proposal later on. Either no response is given whatsoever, or they avoid replying and then invariably decline the proposition several hours later (which always leaves a bad impression).

It's so frustrating to me. Not only just because it feels like I'm being toyed with and given a false hope and feigned interest, but because it seems so commonplace. The consistency of this issue is frighteningly notable. I dare to ask the question of "why?" of this community because it makes absolutely no sense to me why you'd so passionately express excitement and enthusiasm for a date but then turn off and shut down when the offer is there on the table.

Honestly I'd love to know why this seems to be such a commonality among the girls in the dating scene for me these days, but in the end all I'm really trying to say is:

If you're not serious about wanting to see someone (or see them again), just be real about it and dont give people the wrong idea about your interest or intentions.