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Petty arguments
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My [22M] gf [22F] and I have been arguing almost every night for the past month and a half. We started dating almost 6 months ago and things were amazing for about the first half. We saw each other every day (which looking back wasnā€™t the best idea but itā€™s a small college town so...), we talked everyday, and did the typical ā€œnew coupleā€ stuff. After that point however, we started to bicker every now and then which is to be expected. I had no problem with it considering it usually was very tame and we talked through it like adults. Well recently in the past month and a half we have argued over everything under the sun pretty much every night. This includes, but is not limited to, the amount of effort we put in, whether or not we are FaceTiming enough, how we communicate, whether we talked about a specific thing or not, posting on social media, etc. Both of us have been at fault for things, but Iā€™m starting to question whether or not itā€™s worth staying in the relationship. I can feel myself growing more unhappy as the nights drag on, Iā€™m blamed for not FaceTiming her a few times a week (when we do, we just sit in silence for the most part, or argue). Things arenā€™t the way they used to be and I can feel myself becoming thankful that I donā€™t have to see her because of this shelter in place thing going on due to the virus. We both have considered ending the relationship at some point but neither of us have pulled the trigger because we want it to work. Any advice on how I can tell whether or not itā€™s worth staying and seeing it through it if I should just concede and move on?

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