from Toronto. I met this girl on Tinder , we chatted in the evening, she asked my insta, we followed each other, next day chatted all day long via texts; I was busy, her plans fell through, I bailed my stuff and we went out ( she was even first to ask me). I met her, she was lovely, way better then her pics, in very good shape. Detail, I am 30, she is 36, I would never ever tell she is 36, she looks like 30 tops. We grab a drink, it was fun chatting, I suggest we go for a walk, we get into my car, go down to a lake, go for a walk, at some point I we just stood there hugging each other, then it's about to start raining, I grab her hand, we run across a bridge to a bar, have a drink, she told me a lot about her life, about her family (family part is just messed up), she started resting her head on my shoulder, rain ends, we go out for quite a long walk, she had her hand on my arm all the time, we chat and laugh, barely any people around, we walk past a light box with people kissing or hugging, and I ask her - did you see what they were doing, she said no, but now she was facing me and so I kissed her, and said - they were kissing, we kiss kiss kiss, she said how much she liked it, I then take her and carry in my arms, throw her up a little. To be honest, it was lovely and romantic. She wanted me to drop her off at a subway station cuz we live in opposite direction, but I said it would not be a problem for me (well it was like 2-2.30am) , so I drive her home, she showed me her favorite bar on the way, I get her home, we kissed, she said she would send me a pic next day of something she was going to do for work). I drive home, text her good night, she texts back.I then text her next day............. and nothing. I saw she unmatched on tinder (not on Insta). and nothing. Few days later I text again asking if she would go on adventure to see a cool waterfall. nothing.

And what makes this worse is how we chatted about fakeness in some people, and now I just have this thought - was it all fake on her side, all those emotions, hugs, and kisses. I don't quite get, if you don't like someone then you don't do all these things, and if you do then you like, but then not responding next day? I had dates, where I could clearly see it's not working, so yes it makes sense, but this kind of stuff with so many emotions, and this and that, and no response... she seemed like someone that could be trusted, I just did not expect this, felt pretty upset. Some of my friends , said - you should have had sex with her; yeah maybe if I went for it it could have happened, but that was not the point, and I dont sleep on first day with someone I actually really like. It just bothers me that someone can do this kind of shit. This kind of experience can make a person more closed, less willing to trust someone in the future.also , she could have at least texted - hey bla bla bla. sorry

Thoughts?

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Update:
Alright. She posted a pic on instagram. And I looked more into her other photos, when we added each other I just looked at couple that she was in, that's it....Now took a closer look - there is same kid in few of the pics, I first thought it was like nephew , but does not seem like. And there a few older photos of a guy and kid is a copy of that guy.
Seems to me they are probably split ( if she was cheating , no way she would have given me her IG) , and she has a kid.
I guess she did want just some fun.

Now that I know, it's much easier to put this away and save it as a good memory.