So we've been talking for about 3 weeks now and only went on one date so far. we were supposed to go on a 2nd but she had to take a last minute business trip. we may have that 2nd date this weekend depending on her availability.

anyways just so happens her birthday is next week (turning 25, were the same age). and ive been thinking of getting her something. but im kinda at a lost at what to get and what kind of message i want to send.

i was thinking of a bouquet of flowers in a vase with chocolates but that seems too romantic too soon.

next option was for just a small bouquet alone or with a stuffed animal?

last option would be just a birthday card with a giftcard to starbucks (shes a caffeine-aholic).

the last one seems the most safe but it doesnt really say im into you, which is the message i want to send. the first one i feel is too overwhelming this soon. i dont know. maybe im overthinking this. need some opinions.