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It has been about a year since my last relationship. The last relationship imploded. We were part of the same sport club but I ended up leaving and losing all the friends I made there. I gave up any hope of meeting someone this past year. Then as the cooler weather kicked in I started thinking about how lonely and how I would not mind a little romance.
I was not looking for anyone but there is a new girl at the martial arts school I practice at. I don't like the idea of sh*ting where I eat again and don't want to screw up. That said, we do talk from time to time and I actually asked if she wanted to grab coffee after the holiday. I guess I am afraid of making the same mistakes as last time.
I have tried dating apps, THEY DON'T work. (In case anyone wants to suggest it)
Me and this new girl vibe well. She is younger than me. My ex was 35 and had been engaged several times and and had a stepson. This girl I am interested in is 21 and about finish her Bachelor's. I am 30. I've also been going to this dojo longer than her. To be clear we have not gone out or anything and I am not lovelorn for her. I did however, video call her earlier and we just talked about random stuff.
To put it simply. Am I about to make the same mistake and implode everything again? Or am I just traumatized and need to keep healing?
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