Went to a singles mixer in my city. 200 people. I planned my outfit, did my makeup. Hair. Was so excited to try and connect with people off of the apps. Tried to start conversations. Kept getting brushed off for other girls. I started hanging with two other girls just the chitchat. The one girl got approached 9 times. I didn't get approached once. I did the approaching and got blown off every time. I'm ready to just give up. I'm told I'm not ugly. I'm young (26), educated, and conversational, between this and awful dates, I just want to cry. The holidays do not help the situation. Pretty sure I'm gonna die alone with my dogs at this point.