I have come to the conclusion that anyone who specifically emphasizes dating sucks nowadays either has the wrong personality for dating, isn't trying enough, is just making excuses for not improving, or is just negative.

The reality is, more or less, dating has always been the same universally. Maybe technology has been added, but the same issues we encounter now you probably still would have been encountered even two decades or so ago. Dating does not suck, it is just like finding employment. You win some you lose some. Doesn't make anyone a bad person, that is just the nature of how dating is. Saying it sucks means you're not willing to put effort into yourself or you are not bothering to try to get to know people and make something work.

All in all, dating does not suck, in fact, if anything, its pathetically easy because of the choices we have.