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Saw a Crush on a dating apps, is it better to swipe just text them?
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Simply the title. I [M] saw a crush [F] of mine on a dating app.

I have their number for what I presume was platonic reasons; I hosted some parties a while back and invited a group of people including them, they each individually gave me their number to send invites (i.e., not a group message I plucked her number from). She has come over a few times for similar parties (maybe 12-20 people each time). We have mostly only ever texted about logistics and very little about personal stuff (that is possibly my fault). Last time I hosted something I texted her an eVite kind of thing, she didn't respond to the text (It probably looked like a generic mass message) but did RSVP yes and show up. I was too busy hosting to talk with them much individually. Not sure if all that is relevant but I figure it adds context.

Would it be better to swipe and see where things land (I wouldn't be surprised if they get tons of likes) or just outright text them to go for drinks or something. It has been a few months since I have last seen them so not sure if an out of the blue text like that would be weird and off-putting.

Yeah, I know I am way over thinking this but wanted to see what people think?

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