Hey so I’ve been divorced for 3.5 years and I’m starting to date again I’m a 30m. After my divorce I had a FWB with someone I knew for most my life but when we would have sex it was no where near how I would want it to go or how I’ve preformed in the past. I wouldn’t be able to last very long and then couldn’t go after I was finished. Which wasn’t always the case in the past since I’ve stopped the FWB I haven’t had sex In almost 2 years and it makes me nervous for dating. I don’t wanna disappoint my date, I don’t want it to be an embarrassing experience. I know I’m in my head which doesn’t help but has anyone else had experience with this and should I tell the date that it’s been a while before we start to let them know any help would be appreciated