How big of a deal is it for you if someone has wealth? Meaning a good job or a rich family or lots of material possessions like driving a nice car or owning a home or having the ability to go on luxurious vacations? Or would having lots of higher status friends, cool hobbies like cooking, being good at instrument or any type of art or knowing multiple languages? Recently I’ve gone on dates with people and I feel like these matter a lot, especially to women in their 20s. I understand those things are important, but it would be nice to go on dates to try and get to know someone, find love and romance, rather than having someone going through a checklist in their head about their ideal person