30m here recently single, but I use to date a lot of women before I got into a 3 year relationship which ended about a month ago. Now that I’m back on the dating scene I’m noticing that a lot has changed since the last time I was on the dating scene, but one thing that has remained the same is that a lot of women, atleast the ones I come across, are still lying about their first time experiences. This is not only with sexual acts but even something as feeling safe/secure with someone; last weekend I was chilling with a female, that I met online, and her other female friend. We were all having drinks and smoking with some music in the back ground. After a few drinks, I put my arms around my date and she leaned into me and said “I’ve never felt this safe being in someone else’s arms before you” and I smiled and said oh really? And she was like “yes, I swear to god”. So I was like you didn’t have to swear but cool I believe you. I then glanced over at her friend and I couldn’t help but notice that she had a weird look on her face, almost as if she was trying to hold herself back from laughing. I guess she couldn’t hold it anymore so she started laughing uncontrollably. My date turned to her and said, what’s so funny? And her friend replied “didn’t you say that same thing to Mike” - (Mike was her ex). She then denied it and said “even if I did, it wasn’t the same”. A little background: this is someone that I met two weeks after my breakup, and we both agreed to having just a casual relationship, as she knows I’m not looking to commit to anything at the moment.

My question is, has anyone else been in a similar situation before? And for the females; has any of you lied about something similar before? If yes what was your reason behind it?