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Why does alot of female lie about their first time experiences?
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30m here recently single, but I use to date a lot of women before I got into a 3 year relationship which ended about a month ago. Now that Iā€™m back on the dating scene Iā€™m noticing that a lot has changed since the last time I was on the dating scene, but one thing that has remained the same is that a lot of women, atleast the ones I come across, are still lying about their first time experiences. This is not only with sexual acts but even something as feeling safe/secure with someone; last weekend I was chilling with a female, that I met online, and her other female friend. We were all having drinks and smoking with some music in the back ground. After a few drinks, I put my arms around my date and she leaned into me and said ā€œIā€™ve never felt this safe being in someone elseā€™s arms before youā€ and I smiled and said oh really? And she was like ā€œyes, I swear to godā€. So I was like you didnā€™t have to swear but cool I believe you. I then glanced over at her friend and I couldnā€™t help but notice that she had a weird look on her face, almost as if she was trying to hold herself back from laughing. I guess she couldnā€™t hold it anymore so she started laughing uncontrollably. My date turned to her and said, whatā€™s so funny? And her friend replied ā€œdidnā€™t you say that same thing to Mikeā€ - (Mike was her ex). She then denied it and said ā€œeven if I did, it wasnā€™t the sameā€. A little background: this is someone that I met two weeks after my breakup, and we both agreed to having just a casual relationship, as she knows Iā€™m not looking to commit to anything at the moment.

My question is, has anyone else been in a similar situation before? And for the females; has any of you lied about something similar before? If yes what was your reason behind it?

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