Some of these posts have to be trolling just to get people fired up. I think I actually fell for one.

I joined this sub to see if I could read about info on cool date ideas. If I could offer up some guidance on dark times. Been through some ruthless relationships but, I see accts posting up wildly broad strokes generalizations about men and women, putting a wedge between people.

Don’t fall for the negativity or posts not worth the energy. If they’re not trolling they’re compromised, and no advice from Reddit will help them.

Get counseling. Everybody could benefit from it all the time not just harsh times. You can’t use your gf/bf as free counseling they’re not professionals.

There’s amazing men and women in every age group and if you have specific goals you need to align, just come correct bc what meets the eye especially early on… isn’t likely what you think.

None of that shiny stuff matters if you’re drowning in toxic debt.

Keep yalls head up. You got this. Go to the gym. Give some energy to gratitude. Get an an additional revenue stream. And cut up your credit card.

Have a great evening!