I ask as people seem so strange now and days and seem so avoidant of trying to build connections or put effort into anything now and days unless somone does all the work for them first... so I figured transactional would be more fair as alot of people want somone to do more than they would, and I want equal, and at least we both get what we want or at least are heard.

What are your thoughts on how you would feel okay with somone offering/asking this.

Also I am not looking for people to tell me I am wrong or this makes me look like a bad person, because frankly I don't care, as I seek to do what is right and needed to make sure I can achieve my goal of social relationships and friendships, while still being honest and not lying or manipulating people like the social norms except people to.