How to turn down a second date while still on the first?

This post has been de-listed

It is no longer included in search results and normal feeds (front page, hot posts, subreddit posts, etc). It remains visible only via the author's post history.

Post Flair (click to view more posts with a particular flair)

I Need Advice 😩

Post Body

Almost every date I’ve been on, the guy will ask some time towards the end if I’d be willing to go on a second date. Being a non-confrontational person and a people pleaser, I never know what to say when I’m already pretty sure I don’t want to see them again. I usually end up just saying something like “sure” because I don’t want to be rude/hurt their feelings. Then I’ll text later that night or the next day that I don’t want a second date. Are there any ways to answer this question in the moment to make it as nice as possible? Are people just blunt, say “no thanks,” then leave?

Author

Account Strength

10%

Account Age

5 months

Verified Email

Verified Flair

Total Karma

Link Karma

Comment Karma

n/a

Profile updated: 3 hours ago

Posts updated: 2 months ago

ElegiacMoon

Subreddit

r/dating

Post Details

We try to extract some basic information from the post title. This is not always successful or accurate, please use your best judgement and compare these values to the post title and body for confirmation.

Posted: 3 months ago
Reddit URL: View post on reddit.com
External URL: reddit.com/r/dating/comm...