I don't even know what women want these days guys.

I'm in British Columbia Canada, 30 M, 6 ft, own 2 companies, no debt, mortgage paid, 6 figure earner and on my way to become a Dr of Nursing Practice (200k /year without income from my business).

Trying to find a lady with a driver's license, a regular job, no kids and not addicted to substances is seeming impossible.

The plan was to find a lady and settle down on a 10 acre homestead and raise children but that seems impossible.

I don't even expect my partner to work anymore once we start having children. That's why I am busting ass to provide a good future for my "future family." If they want to work that's no problem I just want to make sure they are taken care off regardless of their decision.

I'm also a strong dude (powerlifting) and it shows.

I'm not trynna be arrogant stating the aforementioned. I'm just laying it all out on the table because I need some help with this guys.

What do women actually want because for some reason I don't have it.

I also don't sleep around or do the hook up shit.

Are my standards to high? Because I feel like I'm being reasonable.

Also I'm a mixed race POC who looks East Indian born in South Africa and raised in Canada. My buddy told me to add it in because he is convinced this maybe a factor? I've never considered it to be a factor and I don't believe that it would be a make or break factor...because that would be stupid af.

EDIT: I have decided to hold of on seeking a relationship after I am done my program. I will then be going to Eastern Europe for work and to find a traditional wife in Romania or some place. This thread really helped me make this decision. Thank you everyone for your guidance!