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Recently returned to the online dating scene, but before I make my exit, I need to askâŚwhat is with this âfeminineâ and âmasculineâ energy stuff I keep encountering?
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Iâm a guy, so Iâm usually encountering these quotes on womenâs profiles:
âIn my feminine energyâŚlooking for a man in his masculine energyâ
âLooking for a man in his masculine energy to match my feminine energyâ
âŚor something to that effect. It kind of sounds/feels like an earlier version of an online dating trope I encountered about 15 years ago when many womenâs profiles had a little quote in there about wanting a man who âhas his shit togetherâ (the 2010s were an earlier, more vulgar version of the matrix).
At the time that meant someone who had a job, a car, and their own place. My interpretation of that was that the guy was to be secure in his ability to act as a provider to the girl by having the ability to pay for dates, take them places, and have a private place where they could be intimate. Mind you these were 18-20 year olds making these requests, and the cohort least likely to have their shit together? 18-20 year olds.
So we arrive at today and it kind of feels like ainât a damn thing changed, except the language and presentation. Does anyone have a solid explanation of what feminine/masculine energy is and could they be so kind as to give this guy some solid examples to better understand?
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