My boyfriend and I are in a relatively new relationship - two months. We met on Feeld, purely for sex and it led to more pretty quickly. We’re very smitten.

I know he’s keen on the idea of exploring sex clubs, having threesomes - be it MFF or MFM. The more we talk about it, the more I’m like - “yes that’s hot”.

He’s totally open minded whereas I’m slightly anxious. These are purely my insecurities, in that I’m worried he’ll like the other girl more than me, or that I’m worried it’ll change the dynamic of our relationship etc.

He’s been really reassuring in that if at the sex club I’m not feeling it with anyone else we don’t have to do anything with anyone else, we can just focus on us. Or if something gets started with another person or another couple that if at ANY point I felt uncomfortable we can leave. So I feel good about that.

So I need your help…

A) What can I do to prepare myself for my first sex club, potentially for my first threeway/foursome?

B) Should I have some boundaries/rules in place? Or just forget that, go with the flow and enjoy it!