So I’m a 33(m) who for the longest time has struggled with the early courting stages of dating. I find myself falling into patterns of online flirting and texting all day and meeting afew times but when women want to go farther into the bedroom I start to get anxiety. Feeling guilty or shame or that I’m hurting someone’s feelings because I’m not 100 percent invested in this person yet and potentially still dating around talking to other women. Now I’ve been doing my best with keeping communication open telling my dates that I’m openly dating or that I’m not looking for something serious. But even though they tell me it’s ok I always have this guy instinct that I’m going to find myself in a dramatic exchange of feelings or I’m going to hurt someone. I used to never have a problem like this before when I was single but since getting out of a pretty serious relationship over a year ago it altered something and I feel more self ware of what I’m doing to people. On one hand a good thing! Should being going around playing with people’s emotions on the other hand I don’t know how to ignore the feelings after getting green lights that I did nothing wrong. Any advice? Am I doing something wrong?