Hey!

So I’ve never dated an older man before. He is 52 & a Gemini just like me. (we just met a few days ago) I’ve had a discussion with him and basically he’s beyond sexually attracted to me which I was not aware how deep his desires were for me until I went over to his house last night. He literally was rubbing on me, sucking on my neck, and almost worked his way down to my breast but I stopped him because I just was not ready to go there. He literally tried to kiss on me the whole time and it made me so uncomfortable to the point he had to move to the other side of the room and sit in his office chair. I am 24, still a virgin, and he knows this. However, the look in his eyes and this intense sexual energy he gives me is interestingly intriguing but I’m not quite ready for him just yet.

I guess my question is, do I cut things off with him? Do I keep my distance? Do I continue to communicate with him even though he’s not looking for commitment like I am?

Lastly, I crave sexual energy but I like it to come gradually not for it to hit me in the face and appear too strong for me to handle. How would you operate this situation?