So I’ve been single since Christmas and I’ve gotten close with 3 guys since. All seperate times and all are now over.

But the pattern I’m seeing is this: - They all say they really like me but then either pull back on communication or cancel plans etc. So then I sit there and think, ok so you’re not ready to date/you don’t have time. Why am I not good enough? - I see myself when they start pulling away with communication that I try and make the extra effort. This is realise is an anxious attachment and I’m working on it.

But how do I get away from this feeling of not being good enough?

I personally think it’s knowing my worth. Knowing that to those three guys, I’m not valued but to another person I could be their everything. And instead of chasing men who don’t hold or see my value, to let it be and let them walk away. Or actually more importantly, I be the one to walk away!