Im honestly kind of sad and worried about this. Im turning 21 in a week and ill be out of college soon (at least undergrad, i want to go to med school if i can) and i still have not found love. Im super shy and reserved and it seems like that is not what girls want in a guy. Ive asked a few girls out and it always goes poorly. I did have one who gave me her number and we went out once but she said she was done after that admiting that after she talked to me in person I was kind of dull, which was great to hear...

I keep hearing that college is the easiest time in life to meet people and i still cant, idk how ill be able to in my late 20s and beyond. I know being single isnt the worst thing but i would like a partner someday but it feels impossible. Is dating near impossible beyond college? How can i become a peace with being single for the rest of my life?