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Hopefully itβs something other than the only thing Iβve ever seen work, which is genetics (height, dick, etc.). Is it possibly for normal, average guys to become irresistible (in a physical sense) to women/a woman?
For me it's a combination of the following physical and emotional traits:
Physical: I love a man who's got nice big arms and a bit of that dad bod. There's nothing sexier than a man who looks like he'd be a super hot daddy to your children. Who could pick you up and look like a protector to you
Emotional: A guy who is considerate to your feelings, communicates amazingly well and replies to your messages (doesn't have to do it fast or right away). A man who treats others with genuine kindness and is very forward about when he likes someone without playing games. Also, a man who can cry is super hot.
That's so wholesome! My lovers cry song is actually Eyes On You that he shares with his dates and cries (he wrote and produced it) and The Warmth by Koda
There's a ton of unfuckables on this thread it made me laugh so hard.
My lover breaks down crying and wailing in front of people all the time. He's had many dates with women and shared his music breaking down crying showcasing some of his emotional music.
Dozens of them have found him even more attractive since, women find it absolutely hot.
Hey I'm going to ask him to DM you if you're okay with it? He can share his profile and you can show him yours. I just told him about you and he smirked saying he's coached a lot of Redditors cause he likes to elevate other guys
My lover isn't one to approach women in public either but he does have a lot of charisma and stands out. Most of his luck has been on dating sites like Bumble and Feeld because he has a good profile. He told me he's never once met a girl on the same night and 'picked her up' for a ONS, he wishes he had that superpower but he doesn't.
You type really well and coherently, which is a huge green flag online so maybe if you can turn that shyness around when texting you could have some luck.
I think maybe the shy and awkward part could be the difference but I don't want to say that. For me it works because I'm the one who's super shy and awkward so his sort of extroverted personality is the balance I love about our amazing relationship.
There will be many others into you I promise!!
Hahaha you're probably 100% my type then. I know loads of women who are into this look physically and the communicative emotional part is just ugh π
Are polyamorous relationships not real? It's kind of extremely judgemental to assume that they're not because I feel more fiery, vicious undeniable romance and love with him that I have never felt in a monogamous relationship before.
Also it's weird that you say people can't detect genuine kindness. Once you've met enough people in your life you can very much detect it when something is fake or not.
Different between being a 'nice guy' and a genuinely kind guy are quite differential.
Being sexually open and open minded romantically are two quite different things btw.
You might just be attracted to certain types of women possibly? My polyamorous dom daddy is so genuinely kind, always replies to his ladies and is emotionally available very forwardly telling women when he likes them without playing games and is always super popular with women.
Are you genuine when you're kind?
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My lover does the same thing, it's funny for him being a guy who's got such different views from all of them.
And they wonder why they're single and can't get a gf.