If you are struggling to find a partner, then don't worry. Don't look for one.

Do what I do: make a lifetime plan.

A lifetime plan is a plan to live your single life for a lifetime, and it is the default plan. Is it possible that the plan may be changed? Perhaps. But don't count on it.

A lifetime plan should cover inheritance issues. Who is going to inherit your stuff when you die? If you have no kids of your own, then your relatives' kids or friends' kids may get your assets, but then they may be motherfuckers and assholes so you may want to donate everything to charity.

Another big concern would be your elderly years. Once you are an elder, the people older than you may have passed away. And you may have distant relatives, but you aren't close to them. And if you are single, you live by yourself and have to take care of yourself, knowing that if you have an accident, then there may be no one to be there in case of an emergency... and you may wind up dying in the residence. So, you may want to live in a nursing home or group home, so someone can keep you company.

Society may expect us to hit specific milestones like dating, marriage, family life, children, childrearing, etc. But how can you date when you don't have a stable job that pays the bills?

For me, personally, I have my own plans: work in the US until I retire, then return back home to China. At the very least, I would have my cousins there and their children, and we can just enjoy our retirement lives together as old folks do. I would rather retire in China than in the USA because the retirement life in the US seems so pitiful and sad. My old aunt once visited me and my parents here in the US, and she could just watch TV and cook food. Sometimes, I would take her out to fun places, like the Mall, when I got off work and had the time.