So im almost 21 and i have yet to figure dating out. I have asked out so many girls from my classes over the past 3 years but none have been interested. I have been on two dates ever (one from tinder and another from this girl who works at a coffee place i frequent giving me her number) and both went horrible. One pretty much stoped talking to me after and things fizzled out and the other said she was no longer interested in me because i was kind if dull to talk to.

I put so much energy into this and it has never turned out well. It is making me think im undatable which makes me kind of sad. Is it best if i stop trying even though i want a partner? I dont think my personality is suited to date since im very quiet and reserved.