Im openly a trans woman and the guy i am dating knows, but were heading to the 3rd date and each date has been getting more and more flirtatious, as have the texts in between. He has never been with a trans woman before and i am pre-op which he is aware of but i have also not been with a man who has never been with a trans woman before so this is a first for me too! i'm not sure how to proceed, whether to just be natural and go with the flow, take charge or let him take charge or if we need to have a more "adult" conversation beforehand! anybody have any advice? first time poster long time lurker on other usernames! thanks for any help in advance!