Dating at 30 and not meeting financial expectations

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Hello, 30m.

I make about $45k/ year but in Northern CA where that is still poverty.

I’m struggling to get interest in dates and second dates after budgets and salary come up.

I don’t have a large fund for dates so I’m usually creative, but I’ve been told multiple times that I’m “being cheap” and that women dating at 30 “expect more financial stability”.

I usually try to do a park or beach date with homemade snack and stuff. Can’t afford $60 dinner bills.

How do I thrive in the dating scene (with little experience) while not being financially affluent?

Am I being cheap on dates by avoiding dinners?

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