I matched with a guy that seems to be quite into me. the attraction is mutual but I asked him what he does for work and he said teaches in the army. I enquired further and basically he's teaching people how to use the guns on tanks right now. I won't lie that kind of made me grimace.

so is it a bad thing to get with someone who works in the army? I'm not some devout pacifist or anything. but I'm not exactly down with the violence and killing bit. I know in the world we've built they're necessary but I was a bit taken aback by the whole using equipment to kill thing. and maybe he hasn't killed anyone but I'm not exactly thinking cool job mate.

does that make sense or am I overreacting?

he wants date me with the intention of being in a relationship.