He's from Europe and I have a different dating cultural background. So I guess the expectations are different.

We've been dating exclusively for three months now (started the exclusivity on the 2nd date). He said he hadn't been using dating apps because he has met me and no need to use them anymore. I kinda had the DTR talk with him yesterday and he's like "you don't always have to have the awkward DTR talk, and the labels are not important.... If you've been seeing someone exclusively for several months and feel secure about it, naturally you are boyfriend and girlfriend." Then he was basically like you can think of us whatever you want. What does he actually mean??? ...

(Previously I dated someone from Europe and he just thought we were bf and gf after 1 month of exclusive dating. I realised that I couldn't be in a relationship with this person after he brought up the terms and it ended up hurting him. I felt really bad about it.)

We also talked about when do couples move in together in general. From my background, it's common to live together even if you are not engaged, or not have the intention to become engaged (common law partnership is normal). Personally I wouldn't want to engage or marry someone, then later on find out that we can't live together peacefully. But sounds like he's quite old school because he said only the ones who got engaged first before moving in, or become engaged shortly after moving in have eventually worked out. At this stage, it's way too early to consider living with him for sure, but just want to gather some opinions here.